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He then began telling me that I had all the symptoms of an incest victim and that the only way out for me was to "recover a memory, relive it and heal from it." I was so depressed and I desperately wanted to feel better. At the hospital, I watched real victims really struggle with their issues.I began to have a series of hospitalizations as I grew more depressed and suicidal. I was finally hospitalized in a women’s program whose main focus was on sexual abuse issues. As I look back now I am convinced that there was another woman whose memories were false. I began to have periods of severe anxiety and I was told these were probably "body memories" and "flashbacks." I thought this is what I had to do to get better. The hospital was trying to teach me how to "manage the flashbacks." When I left the hospital in March of 1989, I still had no memories and I was obsessed with finding one.
I began treating my depression with alcohol until I realized that I was drinking every night.
He had created such a sick dependency that I thought I had to let him know my every move.
He also was trying to convince me that an older uncle and my older brother had also molested me.
I asked a psychiatrist at one hospital if my psychological testing showed any indication of sexual abuse and he said no. All my energy was focused on journals, therapy etc.
I had to get help taking care of my children and my house. When I was not in the therapist’s office, I was thinking about all the time of talking to him.
Soon the therapy began to focus only on my adult child issues and we did no work with my son.